Chapter Two: Trusting God Through Life’s Transitions
This is Pastor Kevin Burroughs-Neeley. I’m so glad to be with you again. God is good, isn’t He?
Let us begin with prayer:
Father, forgive me of sin. As we come before Your people this morning to impart what You have given me, let those who hear be edified by Your Word. I give You glory and honor, in Jesus’ name. Amen.
When we last gathered, we explored the challenges and importance of navigating major life transitions—starting a new job, moving to a new city, getting married or divorced, having a child, retiring, or facing significant loss. These transitions are part of life, and how we respond to them is critical.
Scripture reminds us in Proverbs 11:14 (KJV):
“Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.”
Also, Proverbs 15:22 (KJV) states:
“Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established.”
When you’re dealing with significant life transitions, it is wise to seek counsel. While God’s guidance is the highest form of direction, we are also called to glean wisdom from trusted friends, family members, and spiritual leaders.
Many people hear God’s voice through prayer, while others receive confirmation during Bible study or times of meditation. It is in these quiet moments that clarity and direction often come.
A Personal Testimony of Obedience
For me and my family, it has been over 30 years since our major transition—leaving Los Angeles, California, and relocating to St. Louis, Missouri. Recently, my oldest son sent me a text expressing his gratitude for that move:
“Dad, I want to personally thank you for listening to God and moving us out of LA. LA has not been the same since we left.”
Immediately, my other two children joined the conversation, agreeing and thanking me for following God’s leading. That was a moment of overwhelming affirmation.
The blessings of obedience literally saved our family.
Looking back, it’s not just the obvious events like the California wildfires or economic turmoil that affirm the decision—but the faithfulness of God over decades. Had I ignored God’s prompting, we would have lost everything.
I remember the 2008 financial crisis and the impacts of COVID-19 in 2020 and 2021. As a Christian artist and business owner in live audio and public services, our income would have been completely destroyed. But because of obedience, God protected and provided for us.
God’s Plan Requires Our Obedience
Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV) declares:
“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”
God already knew what we would face in California had we stayed. He was preparing a way for us, but that required obedience on our part.
Just like Abraham, who obeyed God and left his father’s house, God may be calling you to make a move, take a new job, enter into or end a relationship, or even start fresh after a significant loss. Abraham’s obedience led to him becoming the father of a great nation (Genesis 12:1–4). But it started with trust.
Recognizing the Benefits of Change
Not every transition immediately reveals its benefits. Sometimes the rewards of obedience only become visible over time—perhaps even years later. I didn’t see it right away, but 30 years later, the fruit of obedience is undeniable.
What is your current transition? Is God speaking to you? If so, do not delay. Respond in obedience.
Key principles to remember include:
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Recognizing the potential benefits of change
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Expressing your feelings honestly
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Seeking emotional and practical support when needed
Transition is part of life. Embracing change rather than resisting it can be freeing. When we left California, we sold our home and gave away our furniture—there was no going back. That decision forced us to embrace the new season and fully trust God.
Developing a Strategy for Transitions
Through my experience, I’ve learned that managing transitions requires intentional strategy. This includes:
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Setting clear goals
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Making detailed plans and lists
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Proactively addressing challenges
For example, the organization that moved us didn’t fulfill their promises, and certain housing arrangements weren’t ready when we arrived. I had trusted someone’s word instead of confirming in writing. That created anxiety and frustration for my entire family.
As the head of my household, I take full responsibility. Now, I encourage others: when making major transitions, ensure all logistics are confirmed—preferably in writing. Preparation cuts down on anxiety and keeps you and your family emotionally and spiritually stable.
Managing Emotions During Transition
Transitions are emotional. I remember the moment we received our first paycheck in our new city. My wife looked at it and exclaimed, “Oh my God! You used to make this in an hour.” That was a sobering moment.
Such situations test your leadership, your obedience, and your faith. But through it all, God proves Himself faithful.
Now, with the benefit of hindsight, I can share this wisdom to help you avoid many of the pitfalls we encountered. With God and good planning, your transition can be smooth, your peace can be preserved, and your obedience will be blessed.
Final Thoughts
I don’t know who this message is for today. You may not be called to move across the country, but perhaps God is speaking to you about another kind of shift. Obedience in that transition can open the door to blessings you haven’t yet imagined.
I know now—without a doubt—that I made the right decision. But during those early days, the path was uncertain. I had to stand firm on what I knew God told me. And today, I thank God for every moment of obedience.
Conclusion
Obedience in life’s transitions is rarely easy, but always rewarding. Trust God, plan well, and watch His promises unfold in your life.
Key Takeaways
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Obedience often precedes understanding: You may not see the benefits immediately, but God is already working behind the scenes.
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Wise counsel is essential: Seek guidance from spiritual leaders, trusted friends, and family.
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Embrace change with faith: Life transitions are a normal part of growth—don’t resist them, walk through them with God.
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Plan strategically: Make preparations, confirm logistics, and anticipate challenges to reduce stress.
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Trust God through the unknown: Even when promises aren’t yet visible, believe that God is faithful.
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Reflect often and give thanks: Look back to see God’s hand over your life and share your testimony to encourage others.
From The Daily Word with Pastor KBN: The Blessings Of Obedience (Part 2), Mar 11, 2025
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